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shes changed her mind, she is now getting a pom yorkie

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Rosey Belle- Stewart

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Barked: Fri Jan 21, '11 8:57pm PST 
LOL!! Plz tell your cousin to dish out some money my wayyyy LOL!! I'm younger than her (21) and I'm trying my hardest to find a way to buy my dogs better food on a really really small budget. About 400 dollars a month. and all the better foods are expensive. Tell her to send some money my way so I can buy my dogs some Blue Buffalo smile Cause I wanna get rid of my purina laugh out loud I can't believe she paid 2500 dollars for a mutt who is supposedly house broke at 7 weeks ( laugh out loud )
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Eponine

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Barked: Sat Jan 22, '11 5:40am PST 
And now to play devil's advocate a little, lest we go to extremes of villainizing the OP's cousin. wink

I really don't think it's so much an issue of finance and priorities, here. Were this dog from a responsible breeder we'd not be quibbling the price or trying to decide for her where else that money might have gone. That it costs fees one might pay for a show quality prospect from a quality breeder in some cases to obtain a mix one could get for a song from a shelter rankles us because we are dog enthusiasts and we recognize the swindle.

It is hard to get others to recognize that swindle though, without having to give them a crash course into the heart of Dogdom that may or may not take. The breeders don't help. You wouldn't believe some of the things they tell people (well, okay, you'd believe it, but you'd roll your eyes!). And they seem so SINCERE, and they obviously love dogs! And they are Bob's friend from the bank so they must be nice. How do you argue with that, if an understanding of a deeper love of Dog is not within this person to have?

Many back yard breeders don't recognize themselves as swindlers, because they honestly think that a quality, ethical breeder charges what they do to make money. They assume the ethical breeder does exactly what they do, that breeding is no more than what they put into it in terms of thought and planning and research and work and money, and they think to themselves "well my dog is a sight cuter than them dogs from fancy kennels, (s)he'd make way nicer puppies, and if that's what they charge for a pup, why, I should charge that too! My puppies are every bit as wonderful and if that's the going rate, that's a racket I should be in on!" If someone tells them otherwise? Well they're just elitists, trying to trick them out of breeding because, well, probably because they're jealous! What do you need all them ridiculous tests for? Hips indeed! My dog walks fine!

For breeders like this, they then perhaps lose or come close to losing that beloved pet, and decide never to breed again (I have known a byb like this!). For others they breed for years without seeing a consequence, and consider themselves to have done a good thing in sharing their awesome dog with friends and friends of friends, and making some extra cash in the meantime, without ever knowing about the heartaches of unhealthy dogs or puppies of theirs that are now dead, or in a shelter, or locked somewhere 9 hours of every day without love. And with no thought to where else their buyers could have gone for a puppy, like a shelter.

Others know or have a vague idea of all of this and just plain don't give a rat's patooty.

In all cases though, the gullible buyer has a hand in things, but I would condemn them secondarily to the breeder. Ignorance plays a role here, for both parties, and willful ignorance is frustrating because while the people involved are either learning lessons the hard way or else not learning and continuing to make the same mistakes over and over, it is of course the DOGS who are paying the price, how many times over until some force is able to teach the ignorant, if anything ever does?

At any rate, in this case what's done is done. Convincing the cousin not to repeat her actions will be up to time and perhaps a puppy with problems. Lighting into her at every opportunity is only going to put her back up. Especially if she likes this dog, and who isn't going to fall in love with a little bundle of fluff? How dare you insult Mr. Mittens, he's darling! How can you say there are things wrong with him?

The way to go about it is to be more subtle and make it into her own idea. Try to get her to take her little bundle to puppy socialization classes. Being exposed to other dog owners and dogs is a good start. Over time if problems crop up you can gently steer towards ideas like "oh yes, that's genetically common in yorkies/poms/both, it's something breeders can test for before they breed their dogs to see if they'll pass them on," and from there she ought to at least be curious about how to go about asking for these tests from her next breeder. Better still she might start to see mutts or maybe even purebreds in the classes who act so charming, and ask the owners where they got them, and hear "from the shelter," and perhaps not dismiss shelters so quickly.

That kind of thing. It's a damn shame, but again, there's only so much YOU can do, you can't learn FOR her. My sister has to learn her own lessons about the little dogs she loves so much whose bladders and kidneys don't work right. Your cousin is going to have to learn that being a dog owner is more than paying an exhorbitant amount for a live animal she expects to be like a stuffed toy.
Randy

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Barked: Sat Jan 22, '11 7:04am PST 
The cost of that dog could pay for my tuition for a semester, plus a book or two! I wanted a certain mixed breed dog, and I waited for one to show up at the shelter instead of paying hundreds for him!
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Mini

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Barked: Sat Jan 22, '11 1:06pm PST 
eek $2500!!!!! For a mutt to boot- probably milled is right!! crysilenced
She could have taken her kids to Disneyland or started a College fund!

Good luck to her, hope this doesnt end as bad as it started- or as fast!
Love this,
gone the Peter Pan route and gotten a Saint Bernard to help babysit
SOO funny brought back that Peter Pan movie. If only dogs COULD babysit! ,big laugh
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Yo-Yo

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Barked: Sun Jan 30, '11 2:33pm PST 
That's insane, no one in there right mind should ever spend that much on a MUTT. When you can go off and buy & save a life at the shelter. I can't even think straight, all that money?! She could of spent that on her kids.. take a vacation? I would not be willing to pay $2,500 for a dog if I had kids. That money could come in handy ANYDAY. Now if I was just with someone else and the dog lived in another COUNTRY I might. o:

*facepalm*

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Sarah,- CW-SR,- CW-G1, CGC

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Barked: Sun Jan 30, '11 4:14pm PST 
I wouldn't pay 2500 for a purebred. Not worth it to me when there are thousands of dogs dying in shelters.
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Lexi Hope

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Barked: Sun Jan 30, '11 4:21pm PST 
Oh my!
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